Scarlet Ranch Frequently Asked Questions
These are some of many questions I receive each day from people just like you!
If you can not find the answer to your question here, please feel free to email me via the contact page.
xoxo Sabrina
When is the Ranch open?
Scarlet Ranch is open every evening from Wednesday through Saturday. On the rare occurrence we might be closed, it will listed on the home page and on the events page. We open at 9:00 PM and close at 4:00 AM on Friday/Saturady and 2:00 AM on Wednesday/Thursday.
What should we bring with us?
Things to consider bringing with you are; alcohol, a robe, additional outfits or toys. If it is winter time, you may consider wearing winter clothes and shoes and changing once you arrive. Many people bring a bag with them to put their clothes since we do not yet have lockers. Bags may be checked at the DJ Booth if you wish.
What type of people go to Scarlet Ranch?
The couples that come to Scarlet Ranch are everyday couples, just like you. Most are middle to upper-middle class couples looking to add some spice to their sex life. Most are married, have families and work normal jobs during the week. Our members are teachers, lawyers, business owners, and about any other profession you can think of. The common thread they have is the desire to explore their sexual boundaries in a safe and inviting environment.
What is the average age of your members?
Our membership ranges in age from 21 to 57 years of age. Most evenings the average age is early 30's. to mid 40's. The woman tend to be younger then the men and some theme events draw a little younger group. Our members tend to be in good physical condition and pride in their appearance.
We are an interracial couple, is that a problem?
Scarlet Ranch openly accepts all races. We welcome diversity and never tolerate discrimination. We are a place to open your mind and explore your desires without prejudice.
Do you accept single males?
Yes. We accept single males on a limited basis. There are several ways to attend an event as a single male. First, you may be sponsored by a member couple. If you do not know a member couple, you may send us an email with a current picture attached and provide a phone number where we may reach you. We will then contact you for a telephone interview. Most men are given a chance to attend once to see you and Scarlet Ranch are a good match. We never allow more then a couple of single males per event. We try to keep the number of single men equal to the number of single woman for any event.
What should we wear to Scarlet Ranch?
You should always dress to impress at Scarlet Ranch! Most members will start out in business casual for the men and daring sexy for the woman. Fetish wear is also encouraged. Many members will bring lingerie or robes to change into as they become more comfortable. You are welcome to be as daring as you like. No old jeans, logo t-shirts, ball caps or gang wear. Management has the right to refuse admittance to any member for any reason.
Do we have to get naked?
No. You are never required to be nude. You are encouraged to be comfortable and take things as slowly as you like. Some members are quite comfortable with their bodies and will be naked in different areas of the club. Most, if not all, are nude in the hot tubs.
We are new to the lifestyle, what can we expect on our first visit?
It is normal to be nervous on your first visit to a lifestyle club. Your imagination will be going wild as you drive up to the club. On your first visit, you will check in, be given a tour and introduced to the staff. They will check your alcohol at the bar and provide you with a coat check if needed. It is best to expect nothing to happen with others on your first visit. You may or may not find other couples that you have an interest in. For many couples, you will only begin to feel comfortable and meet others after a few visits. This is normal. If you plan on playing together for your first visit and use the ranch as a place to relax, maybe give each other a massage or play in one of the rooms, you will not be disappointed with you visit. Scarlet Ranch provides a hedonistic atmosphere for you to explore your desires. What you make of it is up to you. The sexier and more social you are, the more you will get out of your time at the club.
Do we have to participate in the themes?
No. Well, not usually. We do have a few themes where you must wear Pajamas or something like that to attend, but they are listed as such. Besides, you would not want to miss our sexy staff in next to nothing!
What does a membership cost?
Membership prices can be found here. Membership and door fees can be paid at the door during your first visit via cash, check, or any major credit card. For each evening, there is a membership charge and a door charge. You may purchase a membership and then pay just the door charges in the future or purchase a Gold Pass Membership and not pay any fees for a 12 month period. Most new couples will attend with a Guest Membership and Door Fee for their first event. This is $80.00 per couple for a regular Friday or Saturday evening or $100.00 per couple for a Theme Event. Our calendar can be found here.
Are there any additional fees?
No, although non of our staff are paid and tipping for the bartenders is appreciated.
How do we become members?
A Scarlet Ranch Membership can be purchased at the door any Friday or Saturday evening via cash, check or any major credit card. You may also mail payment to us at the address listed here.
How do I get directions to find you?
Directions to Scarlet Ranch can be found here. We are located in downtown Denver, Colorado. We are close to many restaurants and hotels.
Information about the Lifestyle!
We receive questions every day from people asking us what is a lifestyle club? What is the difference, if any from a swing club?
There is no easy answer and for many people there may be no difference. At Scarlet Ranch, we see it as a difference in attitude, activities and objectives. We look at sexual exploration as a journey that takes as many different paths as there are types of couples. A typical on-premise swing club is for couples to exchange partners for sex. The environment is generally far from what you would want to see in the daylight and there is generally no place to have quiet conversations.
Scarlet Ranch is a large downtown Denver facility with a nice furnishings, comfortable seating areas, state-of-the-art sound system, indoor hot tubs, massage table, light bondage room, private and semi-private play rooms and filled with attractive couples looking to explore their sexual boundaries in a safe, sensual environment. Scarlet Ranch is always clean, well appointed and prides it's self on a no-pressure environment.
If you are looking to have sex with as many partners as possible, then Scarlet Ranch is probably not for you. Our members take pride in their appearance, typically are well educated, well spoken and are looking more for quality encounters then quantity. For many, an evening at Scarlet Ranch may or may not include sex with others. Many couples enjoy a sexuality charged safe environment to be as open as they dare, well others may just want to watch.
A lifestyle club is a place for you to explore your fantasies. For many couples, this may be as simple as having two or three members of the opposite sex give you a massage while you lay nude in front of an open fire. For others, it may take the form of having two women or men at the same time in a sexual encounter. For almost all couples, the journey into the lifestyle enhances their union and makes their relationship stronger. For people outside of this, they will never understand, but once you explore your inner desires with the one you love, you will be in a place few couples have journeyed!
There are so many good resources on the internet for information about the lifestyle. One good source is: sexuality.org. They provide answers to many of the questions new people may have.
